Category: Dating and Relationships
I've heard that some people like to have sex in public places. I for one think this is wrong, depending on how public you want to get, and I'm interested in what everyone else thinks.
See to me it all depends on how public you want to tge. If you want to go to burgerking and bang away in the stall hell no one should stop you. Now ifit's at a movie or smepace open where everyone can hear then uh no that's jsut disgusting.
wrong period Lol like I said on another similar board post, a peck is as far as I'd consider taking it. anything past that is for behind your private closed doors!
Hmmm, good question! I think sex in a public place could be kinda cool :). But that said, not to the extent that you just outwardly wold get right down to it, making it obvious to the whole world! But I don't think there is anything wrong with it if you're discrete about it. I mean, I'm sure people do it all the time and most people are generally oblivious to it. Obviously it depends on how 'public' you wanna go, cos in some circumstances, it would just be a no no. But it can be a huge turn on, and if you're incredibly in love and mad for a person that you can't keep your hands off of them, then sometimes it's humanly impossible to wait until you get home!
haha right on Luce. I for one have never had full sex in view of people, although there was one instant where the person i was with at the time got me off under the table in a pub, and that was an amazing turn on. So, I think stuff like that is fine, but like banging some one against the wall in a street or something is a little too much lol.
You just can't help yourself you, can ya 8-)
I think its ok as long as both parties have agreed on a bloody good alibi beforehand.
I've done it in simipublic places, IE a public lake at night when it was highly unlikely for others to be there, but I think it depends on the atmosphere; IE are children likely to see? If so that's a definite no no, but is it a party where others are going at it? Well, I don't think I would do it, but I wouldn't be offended if others were and that was simply the atmosphere. There is a time and a place for everything, and the big part of being an adult is knowing when it's the time and when it's not. LOL, IE, if you know it would make your parents uncomfortable then don't do it with them home, married to your partner or not.
Very good point Witchcraft... I agree whole-heartedly :)
wow, heheheheheh
I think witchcraft makes a good point above, there is a time and place, and there is a difference between having sex in a public place when no one is there, and doing it in full view of others. I generally think that what goes on between two partners should remain behind closed doors, after all, I believe that if you feel the need to do it in a public place it's about lust, not display of love.
as long as they don't make it obvious have fun really, i have no issues with most people and live by the live and let live philosiphy
Why would the parents be uncomfortable after all they have produced children, and surely they cant have forgotten, that sex is an important part of relationship.
Because though they've had sex, and obviously they have the thought of their child; the baby they nursed and so on, engaging in sexual activity is unthinkable for some parents; or while they may accept it that doesn't mean they wanta hear it. My Mom most certainly knows I do it; I am married after all, but as we are not open with each other about sex and she is my mother I feel it shows respect not to do it in her home; at least when she's around...
They just do not want to accept that their child has grown up. I think it stems from the fact that we are really animals and our offspring having children, upsets the balance of the group/herd we are a threat to the stability of the group..and this was a very strange theory hypothesised by my Psychology tutor..he was a character.
LOL, he may be at least half way right. *smile*
He was forever throwing out these diverse theories for us to discuss, and we did, for days.Until 3 camps emerged those who agreed, those who weren't convinced and those, who emphatically thought he was crazy. I agreed with him.
i guess it dipends where you are!
for example i don't really think people will do it in places like airports becaus it's to busy there but a park maybe?
Hmmm, I don't think it is right to do it, but still either way I would like to try anyway. Lol.
as some of you said, there's a time and place for everything, and sex is one of those things that should be kept private, at least in my oppinion.
I don't wanna think about that... I'm a vergin yeah, but... sex in public? Isn't it supposed to be a private moment?
The way that I see this topic is that it can be viewed in one of 2 ways.
1:
If someone feels that the person that they are with is the person that they just have to be with and that they are in a suitable place where children and other bystanders won't see, then go for it!
2:
However, sex is ment to be an intimit thing. So, having it in public is like exposing yourself to everyone. Sex itself is supposed to be a lifelong bond with a person. And later on, to share the cration of life with that person.
A few other people have made this point. I think it depends on how far you're going to take it and the amount of people around etc. I've gotten someone off and had them get me off in a park and in their car etc and that was fun and harmless. had sex once in public and almost got arrested! That was not fun! Cop should have minded his own business. It was one in the morning and the place was deserted. He could have had the curtosy to wait until we were finished! I was quite annoyed at the time, as was she, but looking back on it, it is kind of funny.
If all other parties consent, then fine, but one must inquire around and be assured all consent.
Hmm smile! go for it! Just do not do it when kids are around, so times a person can not wait to get home. :)
Totally unacceptable, do it in private. Any activity that's lost its mystery loses its specialness, and if sex isn't something that's supposed to be special between two people, I don't know what is.
i have to agree with poster 26 i think it is a pribate thing
I'm very shy in person. haven't done that in publick so far. I don't think my shyness will let me do that in future as well.
But I do have an ambition of sexing in the seashore. lol.
Raaj.
I don't want to see, hear, or smell you fucking while I'm on my way somewhere in the world. Quit being selfish and do your shit in public or in an exhibitionist-friendly place.
starfiy u r so wrong ive said that before but no we are going to do that anytime soon
we are going to do that soon really!! butterfly star? Oh! dam, ya!!.
hahaha, I love topics like this. I'll refresh it:
The last time a had sex in public was almost half a year ago. It was a good friend of mine. We were driving back and forth, just talking. I told him to pull over on the side of the road up beside an alfalfa field. We had long, hot, loud sex out on the hay. That was a good day. Plenty of trucks driving by honking at us. haha, that was nice.
Public sex feels good because it feels naughty. It's fun. You get this adrenaline feeling that you don't get behind closed doors. It's fun to be bad. Like when me and my friend were out in my pasture near the barn about a year ago. It started to rain hard, so we went to the barn. I undressed him and he undressed me and we just went at it. That might not be as public, but it felt on edge. haha
I don't see anything wrong with it. Ya gotta do what ya gotta do. Just make sure you clean up after yourself, and try not to do it somewhere where there's a lot of kids around.
Jessie
rebelwoman
so agree!! :) but my lady calls me a freek! hmm... :)
Hey is masterbating in public just as bad as fucking in public or is it better or worse? Just wonderin. I ain't never done that, but I've done the other obviously haha